So, I couldn't hook a R' Lau sighting for Chanan, which truly disappointed me. Imagine growing up and one day realizing, "I met Elie Wiesel when I was 5." That's what this would have been like, but more, in my mind, for my son.
Fast forward to yesterday: Due to a blackout, I bumped into my old friend, Lisa at the JCC, who just got a new job starting next week: Claims for Holocaust Survivors. I vented my feelings on making sure our 5+ year olds start meeting survivors - so they see who they are, that they existed, and they grew up - and later on understand what a miracle that is and know it happened. Not even hearing the words "Holocaust" or "survivor" now, but just registering a memory of real people for later. It happened that there was a Survivors lunch scheduled for the next day and they needed volunteers. I would bring Chanan.
I asked him last night if he would come with me the next day to volunteer at a very special lunch for some very special older people, older than Bobby and Zaidy. He agreed then he started asking:
C: Who are they?
Me: They used to be superheroes.
C: Really?
Me: Yup, but like all people, they get older and they look like all the other old people. You can't even tell. They helped us, now it's our turn to help them.
C: What did they do?
Me: They went through a war (and helped save the Jewish people). I'll tell you more about it when you get older.
I picked him up from school at 12. He handed out the fortune cookies and put a smile on several faces. There were about 40 people in the room. I hope he'll come with me again and we eventually get to know some of the folks.
Tonight, when Chanani went to bed, he asked again if I could tell him more about those superheroes we helped out today.
I will, when you get older. Hopefully, some of them will too.
What great parenting! Focusing on what really matters while setting the stage for futher discussion, understanding and compassion. Keep up the good work. :)
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